Friday, December 4, 2020

The New Diet


There is something about the word "Diet". 

It either repels us or quickly peaks our interest, as if there is new knowledge to help us lose weight or have a better body. 

Well, this will help you achieve better health, but not in the way you may be thinking. 

In January of 2020, I began contemplating a "Word Diet". 

Imagine it like this:

Words equal food.  





Some are rich in nutrients and beneficial for life.
Others are full of empty calories, no nutrients, and full of man made chemicals. .

Listening equals exercise.  But just like food, not all exercise is created equally.

I confess, with my sanguine personality, I have struggled to obtain a “lifestyle change”.  

(Lifestyle change seems to be the term professionals use when they want you to get healthier). 


 To help, I look for sayings and post proverbs near my desk to motivate me to be a better listener and to stop talking so much.


"Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent;
With their mouths shut, they seem intelligent."

"A wise man will hear and increase in learning. And a man of understanding will acquire wise counsel".

The "food" of our own mouths is so important to our overall health. 

Your words are powerful, my friend.  So, powerful!

Proverbs 18: 21 AMP
Death and life are in the power of the tongue,
And those who love it and indulge it will eat its fruit and bear the consequences of their words.

Good and bad, 

life and death.  

We all have a choice with the "Word Food" we choose.  


Gratitude, thanksgiving, prayer, encouraging words - All of these are superfoods. 



Grumbling, gossip, negative talk 


Nothing good can come from these.  These are the empty calories that damage you. 


They not only damage your emotions, but as the above proverb says, they damage your future.  


So, what about an “exercise program”?




Choosing the right “exercise” is crucial.
Listening can be life giving to others and to yourself.  It is a way of showing kindness and love. It is how we gain understanding and knowledge.
But, we also must be careful to protect ourselves from certain "exercises”.


The overhead squat reminds me of listening to THE MEDIA. 


Imagine holding a heaving barbell straight over your head, then squatting down as far as you can before standing back up again.


That pretty much sums up my personal feelings on the media.

Unfortunately, there are even well meaning friends that are "bad for your joints" when they are speaking.

If we spend the majority of our "exercise" on listening to sources that make us better, our overall health improves.  Spend time listening to things that feed your soul, people that inspire you and especially to what is inside of you. 

All of these things are great exercise.  





Let's get fit, my friend! 


Your words are important. Your experiences are valuable.  Even on days when you're not feeling your best, speaking out words of gratitude will change your atmosphere and even your health. 


Tuesday, November 17, 2020

Loved

 LOVED



Ephesians 3:18-19 NLT (Paul is praying)

And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep His love is. (19) May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.


God’s love for you is immense. It’s like looking up into a clear night sky and realizing it is too big to fully grasp.  It covers the deepest depths of your soul.  It is the perfect love that every person longs for, but no other human can give.  

Only the One who IS Love is even capable of true, complete, real love. 


You, my friend, are the object of that perfect love. 


Before you were even born, God knew you and loved you.  


There is even better news: NOTHING can separate you from that love. You can't even separate yourself from it. Life, death, angels, demons, challenging circumstances, fear or worry (aka not trusting God) - absolutely nothing can change God’s love for you. 


The key now is asking Him to help you experience it and have the mind and heart to understand it the best you can.  Living in the awareness of God’s incredible love for you will change everything.  


Never Forget the Truth - You are truly loved.


  •  God, please give me the power, today, to understand how immense your love is for me. Help me experience and fully know the love of Christ. May I live the true fullness of life and power that only comes from You. 

Monday, November 16, 2020

Created


Psalm 139:13-14 (NLT)
You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb.
Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous - how well I know it

Friend, every part of you was designed and crafted by God.  Whether you fit the so-called ordinary human mold or you are differently abled, the Creator personally made you for a purpose for this exact time in history. 
You are a One-of-a-Kind. The Creator never EVER makes a mistake.  There are no accidents with the creation of life, because God loves people.  He absolutely loves you.  This is why you are here. This is why you are reading this reminder right now. 

When an item is hand-crafted with great detail, the artisan is proud of his work. 

A writer is proud of her novel as each word is poured over to create her story.  

A chef is proud of the meal he creates with perfect combinations of flavors and cooking techniques.  

Master creators are proud of their work.
The Ultimate Master Creator is proud of you. 

Our lives are not about our human conception, but about the One who made us, wonderfully and purposefully.  We each have unique abilities that can make the world better.  Ephesians 2:10 reminds us that God created us to accomplish good works that were prepared specifically for us in advance.


Never Forget the Truth - YOU were wonderfully made by the Master Creator.


  • Thank you, God, for creating every single part of me. Please help me to understand and appreciate your amazing creations, starting with me. 

Sunday, October 11, 2020

Just Be

 



What do you think of these quotes?

“Be still..."
"Cease striving..." 
"Surrender your anxiety! Be silent and stop striving..."

These words are different versions of a line of the song recorded for us in Psalm 46.

Do you believe it is possible? 

Being still and silent is possible. 

But, cease striving?


I try.


There are places and times where it comes naturally for me, like sunrise on the beach on the east coast.  But the problem is - 

            I live in Central Ohio.  


Perhaps it’s the American way to try to make things happen, to continually be striving.  Many times we do not even realize it. As Nike says, “Just Do It!”
However, those quotes were recorded in the Bible thousands of years ago in the Middle East. It looks like being busy, striving and noise might just be the 'human way'.

In all of those versions, the second half of the line is exactly the same, "... and know that I am God." 


Aha! That is the reason those words are so important. 

Be still. ‘Just be’ with God, no matter what is happening around you. It can mean time alone in a quiet place or simply closing your eyes and breathing for a few moments when everything around you is chaotic or stressful. It is the place inside where your trust and peace are renewed.

If you read the whole song, you will see it starts by declaring that God is our refuge. He is present with us in our troubles.  Then the writer says we will not fear when

  • mountains crumble into the sea, 

  • the earth quakes,

  • waters roar  AND

  • mountains shake because of the raging waters.


Ummm - To be honest, I might be a bit afraid if I witnessed that.

Can you imagine the 2020 version of those two verses?  It could start like this.         

Therefore, we will not be afraid when swarms of locust destroy the crops, when a terrible virus hits every nation or when wildfires ravage the land.
I'm sure you could add your own lines to this.  There are plenty of events to choose in 2020.

Is it possible that all of the shaking, whether physical or emotional, is actually good?
Is it possible, without the shaking, we will not get to a place  where we regularly are still and cease striving, so we can know and trust God? 

It makes me think of Joseph, the favorite son of Jacob. He is often known as “Joseph with the coat of many colors”,

As a teenager, God gave him dreams of his future.  But Joseph was unable to "do" anything to accomplish them. His life took a turn that looked like it was the opposite direction of his dreams.
He was -rejected by his own brothers
    -sold into slavery
    -falsely accused and imprisoned
And then, forgotten for years by another prisoner that promised to mention Joseph’s plight to the pharaoh. 

That is some serious shaking!

Even though others could see God's favor on Joseph, while he was a slave and a prisoner, Joseph had to think he had misinterpreted his dreams.  His dreams showed him as the greatest star and the largest stalk of wheat being worshipped by stars and wheat that represented his family.

There was absolutely nothing Joseph could do to "make" his destiny happen. No planning or striving could get him into a position where others would bow to him, especially not his family.  He may have been promoted when he was a slave and a prisoner.  But he was still a slave and a prisoner,

Joseph's future and Joseph's life belonged to God. 

He just had to do the next task in front of him the best that he could. No amount of “striving” would accomplish God’s plan. Only God could give him favor and success.

So why was Joseph shown his future?

Was it so Joseph could start working on his 5 year plan to make it happen?  Or so Joseph could start promoting and positioning himself to be a great and powerful leader? 

I cannot tell you why God gave him these dreams.  I can only tell you, he continued to be faithful to God despite the terrible things that happened to him.  He trusted God when his "position" looked bad.  God gave him favor while he was a slave and a prisoner.  Then, in God's perfect time, Joseph was able to humbly and wisely step into his position of power.  

No matter his status among men, Joseph always remained God's faithful servant. 

Friend, in our current circumstances, we can cease striving and be still because God can be trusted. 
You are His precious child.
He delights in you. 
Most importantly, nothing can stop God's destiny for you as you continue to come to Him.
The very things that may be shaking you now are actually positioning you, both inside and out.  

I know it can be hard to believe.  I know it can feel like you need to DO something. 

But just like Joseph, you are dearly loved.
Just like Joseph, God has a purpose and plan for you.
AND nothing can thwart God's plan!

Are you familiar with Jeremiah 29:11?  It was recorded as the Israelites were being removed from their home and taken to another land as captives.
Things were very very bad for them at the exact moment these words were written.  From their view, it looked like their nation was being completely annihilated. 
"I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future." 


If you read the history of Israel, you will know that God did have a plan to bring them back and restore them as a nation. 


Just like Joseph and the Israelites, there is a plan to prosper you and give you hope and a future.


When we take time to ‘just be’ before God, that hope is renewed.

Never Forget the Truth.....
Nothing can stop God's perfect plan for you. 







Tuesday, September 15, 2020

Corn Smart

Book Smart * Street Smart * Corn Smart





You have probably heard of the first two.  They  may even be words that have been used to describe you or someone you know.

But, corn smart????

My part of the country is known for growing many of our nation's staples, like corn, potatoes and wheat.  Therefor, the residents develop skills others around  the country may not have mastered as well, 
        like shucking corn. 


I had no idea this was a special skill until I moved to Florida. I was invited to a cookout with a friend from Miami.  We were at the store deciding what side dish to bring, when I grabbed ears of corn and described a delicious dish. She giggled a little but did not say anything until we were in the kitchen.  I began tearing the husks off of the corn and complaining about the pathetic tiny kernels. 
"I can't believe you call this corn. What am I supposed to do with these tiny little crumbs posing as corn?"
She laughed and laughed, then gladly shared the humor she found in the fact, her only friend from Ohio, not only knew the term "shucking corn", but complained about the quality of the Florida variety. 


Hey! In Ohio, you do not have to grow up in the country to have a lot of experience with fresh corn. If you travel between the 3 C's (Cincinnati, Columbus, Cleveland), you will definitely see corn fields and cows. 








Since that day, I felt kind of proud of my corn expertise. But this summer, my husband purchased 26 ears at a farm stand while visiting his family in northwest Ohio.  I was surprised by his correction of my corn shucking technique. After 25 years of marriage, it was clear we had never conquered this task together.

In my mind, I wondered if this is how he felt whenever I gave him driving suggestions (If you are a new bride, I do not recommend it).   I did not share my thought out loud. Instead, in a less than gracious tone, I responded, "Just because I did not grow up right across the street from corn, does not mean I don't  know what I'm doing!"

I know. Childish, right?
Perhaps, I'm not always "Midwest nice".

But soon I noticed he had finished cleaning four ears in the time it took me to clean one. 
Fine!

I swallowed my pride and took his advice.

  
Who knew you could get rid of the husk in 3 quick motions? 
Well, my husband did,

                as well as his family

                       and probably a lot of other expert corn huskers (They are not just in Nebraska).

Clearly, I should have been quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become..... irritated. 

But what about things more important than corn?
There is always more to learn in life, even about things we think we know.

True wisdom starts with a humble heart, a heart ready to learn from God first and then from others. 

One of my favorite Proverbs by King Solomon says,
"Intelligent people are always ready to learn. Their ears are open for knowledge. " (Proverbs 18:13).

It took ears of corn to remind me to be humble and keep my own ears open.

Others know more than me when I least expect it. LOL









My friend, we all have knowledge and wisdom that others need,
        just like they have knowledge and wisdom we need. 

Never Forget the Truth...... It really is better to be a listener.  

Sunday, June 14, 2020

You are Equipped

You are equipped





I absolutely love when I catch myself having a wonderful thought just as I am waking up. Many mornings, I look at the clock first to see how much longer I can sleep or how much time I will have to myself  if I get up at that moment before everyone else in my house wakes up. 

But on occasion, I get the precious gift of a beautiful early morning thought that is clearly from God.

On one of these mornings, these words were going through my mind as I was waking up. "My God will supply all my needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus". I heard them in my mind three or four times before I ever opened my eyes.  When I was fully awake, I actually snuggled back down under my covers because it felt like a hug from God.  It was during the first few weeks of the social distancing protocol because of the CoVid-19 pandemic.  Since our sole income was from our own business, there were definitely concerns about our financial future.  But right then, I just knew God had that special message for me. 

Then as I was relaxing and snuggled down with my head on my pillow, another thought ran through my mind in the same way. 
"Consider the mountain goat." 
Wait! What?!
Then a moment later, the same thought.
"Consider the mountain goat."
No, no - That is not right. Consider the lilies of the field or the birds of the air.  (Matt. 6:26-30) 
Besides, I wanted to keep thinking the first thought I had about God supplying my needs. 
I relaxed one more time. Then it was back.
"Consider the mountain goat." 

"Fine! I'm up."  I knew nothing about mountain goats but apparently I needed to learn about them.  

Surprisingly, I found a few verses in the Bible that referenced the mountain goat.  
But I knew there was more to "consider".  So, within the next 24 hours I read several articles and watched random videos regarding this creature. 

Mountain goats are not like the farm goats you may know.  
I learned from Wikipedia and National Geographic, they are actually in the antelope family.  




They are specially equipped to travel in high mountainous conditions.  With split-toed hooves and rough padded feet that can grip, they are able to be sure footed on small, uneven rocky cliffs and steep slopes. They can jump up to twelve feet over dangerous chasms between rocky crags. They have a double coat that makes them able to withstand extreme subzero temperatures and high winds. As herbivores, they can find food to sustain them in high mountain crevices. 

As I was considering all of these facts, I realized God made the mountain goat fully equipped to climb high above its predators.  They were created to thrive in circumstances that other animals could not endure.  

If God created the mountain goat to thrive within the extreme conditions it will face throughout its lifetime, how much more has He done this for you?  
You are the one He loves and adores.  He knew you before you were ever born. 

If He has equipped this animal with all that it needs to grow and live above its enemies,  you can be sure that you are perfectly equipped for your own life, too. We are created to endure, to rise above and to flourish.  Psalm 18:39 reminds us that God equips us with strength for our battles. 

You, My Friend, are God's masterpiece.  
If you have asked Christ to be in your life, you are given the gift of Holy Spirit.  The Spirit will equip you for more than you can imagine.  






When you first believe in Jesus, you are similar to the new born mountain goat, aka 
"Kid". Kids are able to stand and walk just a few hours after birth.  Under the care of its mother, a kid gains the strength and skills necessary for its future.  It will be able to move from a lower area with grass to high-elevation and rocky terrain that will become its usual habitat.  It will learn to climb on mountains, find food and escape the animals that desire to devour it.



You, also, are continually being equipped for the circumstances you will face in your life.  The One who loves you the most is with you in the very best times and the most difficult times of your life.  He personally gives you what you need.  

You have God's Word, the Bible, to make you complete & equipped for every good work (2 Timothy 3:16-17).  Plus, He promises to "supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus". (Philipians 4:19)  


Never Forget the Truth .......
You are equipped.

God promises to equip you for every thing you will face in your life and everything He has called you to do.  

You are dearly loved 💕

2 Peter 1:3 NLT 
By His divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the One who called us to Himself by means of His marvelous glory and excellence.