Friday, January 25, 2019

Good Medicine

In the words of the wise King Solomon, "A cheerful heart is like good medicine."
Ha - This means we can be like pharmacists for the soul.  

Sometimes a text or email from you may be just the thing to make another person's heart cheerful.
         * A call  * Asking to meet for lunch  * A thoughtful gift
 -  All ways to not only bring a cheerful heart to a friend, but to yourself as well.
    "The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves
       be refreshed."  Proverbs 11:25 Last week, I received an unexpected gift in the mail.  I was not only happy to get a surprise present, but when I opened it I laughed, clapped and danced.  
       Seriously - My kids told me I was being too loud.
When I called the 'giver' to thank her, she laughed right along with me.  
She was happy + I was happy = Good Medicine.

Whether you are the giver or receiver, the blessing is a cheerful heart.

Do you want to know what I got in the mail?  

It was from my friend, Lynette, who lives two hours northwest of me.  Technically, she is also my supervisor for Moms in Prayer.  She is the State Coordinator for Ohio. I am an Area Coordinator in central Ohio.  

As I opened the package, I literally laughed out loud.  
The week before, Lynette heard my heart as I shared with her how I wanted this item because of a story about King Jehoshaphat that I have told many times for the ladies in my groups.  She must have felt my disappointment when I lamented because every time I would bring this item up to my husband, he would say, "That is not a good idea."  Even my kids would say, "Mom, you can't be trusted with that."  
Humph - These people!

But Lynette knew how much this meant to me.
     She knew it represented joy and courage to me.
           And she knew she did not have to live with me, so it didn't matter if I could "be trusted".

If we are being accurate here, I do not believe King Jehoshaphat's army used this item.
But every time I picture this story in my mind, my new present is included along with a few small instruments, like a triangle or perhaps a tiny flute.  
In 2 Chronicles 20, Jehoshaphat received word that three armies were marching toward Judah to conquer the land of his people.  
                              He was terrified. 
He cried out to God and asked the people to fast and pray as well.  Everyone gathered in Jerusalem, including women and children.  He then prayed a powerful prayer that most would say started with praise.  While that is true, I say he was also reminding himself and all of Judah, who God was (& is)
- Powerful
    -  Mighty
         - No one can stand against Him
             - He is over heaven and over the kingdoms of the earth.   
Jehoshaphat then reminds them of the things God had done in the past.  
He ends his prayer by laying out the problem and acknowledging that only God can save them.  

Of course, God said they did not need to be afraid or discouraged.  
Of course, He said the battle was not theirs, but His.
They just needed to march out the next day, be still and "watch the LORD's victory".  

Fantastic!  The people praised God and worshipped.  At that moment, they were most likely feeling brave, strong and full of faith.  

Early the next day, as the army was marching out to meet the enemies, Jehoshaphat had an idea.  
The worship leaders should walk ahead of the army to lead everyone in songs of worship on the way.  
This was great………..
unless you were a worship leader who thought you would be hiding out in the back.  
Now understand, friend, this is just my perspective.  There is not evidence that the singers were afraid.  There is also no mention of instruments. But in my mind, I picture a quick panic in these men as they are walking toward the front past all of their country's strongest warriors.  I have them armed with tambourines and lyres (and maybe a triangle even though they are never mentioned in the Bible). Though my mind's picture may not be accurate, it does accurately emphasizes an important truth.
We are to praise God even when we feel afraid.  
I think my picture adds the instruments because it remind me of celebrating before we can see the victory.  Cymbals, dancing, stringed instruments and more are all parts of a great victory party.  So, this story reminds me to celebrate before I see the victory.  
Jehoshaphat's idea was actually brilliant. Each step closer to the enemy could have increased the fear level in most of the soldiers. But singing songs about the power of God or songs giving thanks for the great things He had done, would invoke strength and courage as they marched toward their foes. It would get the focus off of themselves and their shortcomings and onto the One who promised them victory. Making a list of things for which you are thankful or a list of characteristics of God that are personal to you, can totally change your focus. It can be the recipe for a cheerful heart. You see, God does not need our praise. He IS God. He loves us and knows when we focus our attention on Him, WE are encouraged and strengthened. Praising God is actually a gift for us. Can you guess what was in the box?
     
By now you must know that it is an instrument.


Yes!  A tambourine!

Imagine the nerve of those people in my house saying I can't be trusted with one. 😀💕.

I LOVE IT!!!
I got on YouTube to learn some tambourine skills.  I had no idea there were so many possible techniques.  I have my work cut out for me if I am going to be a tambourinist.
(Tambourinist? Is that right? Autocorrect keeps changing it). There is actually a series with six lessons I could watch to perfect my skills. None of those six lessons includes banging it on your hip or dancing around while you play it. I may have to come up with my own lessons to put on YouTube. I'll ask the lady in the video below to help. She has got some moves and enthusiasm, I could not rival. Oh Friend, how many times do we think about doing something nice for a friend but then get busy and let the idea pass?  What if that idea was just the thing to provide the good medicine our friend needed? 
Trust me, I am not passing judgement.  I cannot even count the amount of times I have let these thoughts pass through without taking any action, only to find out later about that friend having a personal struggle.

May both of us
     NEVER FORGET THE TRUTH..... A cheerful heart is like good medicine. We may be just the ones to help ourselves and others with that cheerful heart.


Tuesday, January 15, 2019

Remember PT







Do you know what I like about David?
I'm referring to the David that killed Goliath, had to run from King Saul for many years and eventually became the King of Israel.
He was real.
High or low
     Brave or afraid
         Obedient or caught in sin
              Focused or needing direction
David was real.
He told God exactly how he felt.  In turn, God called him “a man after God’s own heart”.



I want to be that!  I want God to call me a woman after His own heart.





David was definitely a man’s man who was full of courage. He also wrote poetry and played the harp.  I love that.
I encourage you to read the stories of his life. It is interesting to read them as if you were reading a biography and trying to get to know David’s personality. You will see he was a bit of an impulsive young man who grows into a great leader.  His best days of leading happen when he checks with God BEFORE he makes a decision.
Hmmmm - Imagine that.
By reading the stories of David’s life, you will gain a greater perspective into his poetry.
Sometimes he was bursting with joy and gladness. We can better understand his true dependence on God as his strength and his source.
Other times he is angry or scared.
Most people have at least heard of Psalm 23. “The Lord is my Shepherd…….” This psalm of David invokes courage and comfort as he declares God as his protector and provider.
           
                              But have you read the Psalm right before it?
My Bible says it is a psalm of David that is meant to be sung.  Really?

The first verse was quoted by Jesus on the cross. “My God, my God,  why have you abandoned me?”  Then David goes on to write, “Why are you so far away when I groan for help?”  He goes back and forth in the first half of Psalm 22 between expressing his anguish and declaring the power and character of God.  Even in his confusion and pain, David praised God as he laid out all his troubles before Him.  As he does this, you can almost see David’s strength and courage coming back.  He goes from speaking in fear as if he is going to be consumed by his enemies, to speaking of the future when he will praise God in the assembly.

Friend, this is the key to facing our struggles.  We have to keep praising God.  We have to keep reminding ourselves
         Who He is
               How powerful He is
                      How faithful He is
         And How He loves us fiercely.

This reminder is for you and for me.

I started out with great faith and courage when I was first given the news about a positive biopsy.  I knew this part of my journey was going to be a battle fought with continuous praise and thankfulness.
However…….
In six days (2 of those were the weekend) I spent about 10 hours at the Breast Cancer Center.  The news was not too bad in the scope of such a diagnosis - surgery & radiation (no chemo),
But just like drug commercials on TV, they have to tell you about the rare but possible negative outcomes.
I started out well. I was able to silently pray and praise God in my mind.  But with each nurse or resident or doctor, I would find myself a little more focused on the problem and a little less focused on the goodness of God.
The problem with losing focus is the fear that is right there waiting to jump in.
And fear does not travel alone.  There are a multitude of other negative emotions that want to quickly follow.  Ugh!

Sometimes it is easy to live a life of gratefulness.
                        Other times it is a battle to stay focused.




Like us, David certainly did not get it right all the time.  But our God who is full of grace and compassion, called him a man after his own heart.

The peace and strength God gave David is laid out with clear instructions for us in Philippians 4. Verse 4 tells us to rejoice in the Lord.  David did that when he spoke of God’s strength, love and character.  Verses 6 and 7 tells us God offers His overwhelming peace to us for every situation. Our part is NOT to delve into worry but tell Him our troubles and continue to give Him thanks.

Oh Friend - Let us both

Never Forget the Truth…..
God’s incomprehensible peace is available to us!

If you find yourself slipping into worry, remember - you need PT……
       Prayer and Thanksgiving
If you feel frozen by fear or anxiety
    Or you don't have the words or energy to pray -
       Try opening to the book of Psalms and reading God’s word out loud.
(23, 34, 91 & 103 are a few of my favorites when I am overwhelmed)

I am praying for you even as I write this.
May the peace of God which passes all comprehension, guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.





Thursday, January 3, 2019

Speak Life





My Friend, I am inviting you to join me on my journey this year.

I will still be telling you the great things I know about you.  That was the reason I started "Never Forget the Truth".
But, I am also inviting you to walk beside me through a detour.

The past two month I have had a lot of unrelated medical tests. It is the end of the year, a time to take care of such things. 
 * Some tests came back disappointing. My Neurologist wants me to go on MS medicine after 10 years without it. 
 *Some came back fine. There was a small concern about an aneurysm in my brain, but I'm ok.  
                However...... I had other tests, scans and a biopsy.  

After the fun New Year's Eve lunch pictured here with our kids,








I got THE call as I was driving to the mall with my daughter.

- THE call where the doctor told me she could call back or I should pull over
- THE call where she told me to get a pen because she was going to spell the diagnosis and tell me other medical results I have never had a reason to know before this moment.

I understood the word "invasive".
I understood the word "carcinoma". 

And so it begins.

I will no longer casually pop into the Stephanie Spielman Breast Cancer Center annually to check "have a mammogram" off of my responsible adult checklist.

They now consider me an oncology patient. 
What?! Who knew?  
          - Wait - I know the answer to that. 

So here is the plan so far: Friday, I meet with a surgeon.  Next week I meet with a plastic surgeon, then onto radiology.  

I really don't know any more yet. I was told it is the best case scenario for a scenario you never want. I think I may need to become a spokesperson for the importance of early detection.

Friend - Stop feeling sorry for me! 

I'm really not afraid.  
I have an unexplainable amount of peace. (Oh, I know the answer to that, too)

I can only tell you that God prepared me for this.  I have total peace for myself. I'm not a fan of surgery. But I have no doubt I'm going to be ok.
I have more concerns for those I love - my mom, my kids, my husband and family.  But, they are going to be ok, too.  

I appreciate your prayers and encouraging words, especially for my family.  I will be as open and honest as I can with the intention of helping you help others (and maybe yourself). I'm sure talking with you will help me too.  Maybe I can write myself happy if I start to feel afraid. 

There are things I am already learning but don't quite have all the words to explain yet.  

So I won't say goodby today with my usual "Never Forget the Truth...." 

Today, I am asking you to practice speaking words of Life to others.
 These are words of hope, 
   words that see the good, 
   that see the "impossible" actually happening, 
   words that are like light in the darkness. 

Speak Life 

Blessings to you, my friend 💕💕💕 
I'll meet you again here soon.

Love, Kathy

PS.  Go see the new Mary Poppins movie.  
         I really do want to be a Leery. In my mind I am a very good dancer.