Saturday, May 9, 2020

Protect Your Babies



Do you think there is something in each of us,
    well, most of us,
that feels protective and stirred up when we see someone or something being bullied or intimidated? 

Even in nature, I want the antelope to escape the lion and the mouse to get away from the cobra. 

I know, it's the circle of life. But, most of us can't help but root for the underdog, especially when the "underdog" involves children or a mom protecting her babies. 

This is how I became friends with the MaMa Bunny that lived in my yard.
(I'm not actually sure she knew we were friends).

I often see rabbits in my backyard.  In the spring and early summer, they make their little nests near the large bushes that placed a hedge between our yard and the neighbor's yard behind us.  I may see them dart through the front yard to the bushes on the side.  But my backyard is their usual hangout. 

So, when I came home one stormy evening, I was surprised to see a rabbit sitting up at full attention about 7 feet away from the corner of the front walkway that connects my driveway to my porch.  Even when I was at the closest point of the walkway to her, she did not move.  Later, when the rain started coming down much harder, I looked out the front window.  I was surprised to see she was still there.  It did not occur to me until the next morning when the storm was gone that she must be sitting on a nest of newborn baby bunnies.

Just a week or two earlier, my husband and neighbor got rid of the bushes at the back of the property so a privacy fence could replace them.  Instead of choosing the hedges on either side of our yard, the poor pregnant rabbit dug the small hole for her nest between our front walkway and a large tree.

The first few days, I loved observing her sitting in the same place several times a day, keeping watch and providing for her newborn babies.  But early one morning. I heard an evil noise right outside my window.
"Caw!!! Caw!!!"
I got right out of bed and went to the front window.
Just as I expected-
A big, black, evil bird with its head pointed right down at my new friend was trying to intimidate her to move, so it could snatch up her new babies.
I opened the front door, went onto my porch and told it to go. 
That mean bird completely ignored me. I clapped my hands and told it again.  It finally flew away. 
I was a bit surprised, the rabbit did not move.  She did not move at the loud caw of the raven.  She did not even move when I was clapping and talking harsh to that bird. 

Unfortunately, the bird did not find me intimidating enough to stay away.  The next morning it came back and brought its friends.  They were like a bad gang trying to take over my neighborhood. 
Oh no!  Not in my yard!
There are too many cute little creatures living there to allow predators to stay.  Unfortunately, my husband did not understand or appreciate my vigilance.  I was helping a mom and her babies.  I was taking a stand for the squirrels, the bunnies and even the chipmunks.  
If that mama bunny could have the courage to protect her babies in a storm or when a predator was perched right above her, I would do my best to help her out. 

This went on several days, until finally ......
my niece and her boyfriend noticed the tiny bunnies out of their nest.  I wanted to hold them and tell them to run before the demon birds came back.  Where was their mom?




Our family moved on to the rest of our activities.  By the time we returned, they were gone.

That mother rabbit may not have realized it, but she reminded me of almost every mom that I know. Moms will withstand anything to protect their children (no matter how old those babies are).  Even before they are born, parents baby-proof the house and get the car seat ready.  Throughout their lives, we want them safe from every possible harm. When they are little, it is easy to control their environment and protect them from many of life’s dangers. But as they grow, it gets more and more difficult.  The goal is for our little ones to become amazing adults.  This means with each new phase, parents have to let go and give more freedom. 

There is only one thing I know to do to protect them in each new phase, actually in every phase.

      Pray

Truly, praying is the most important thing we can do, no matter the age of the children we love. 
James 5 says, ".....the prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective".

We can plainly see, the need to protect our children includes much more than physical dangers.

I Peter 5:8 NLT
Stay alert!  Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.

Though the evils in the world sometimes feel overwhelming,  we know our prayers to God are powerful and effective.  God knows what is ahead for our children and what traps are nearby that could entangle them.  It is important as we pray to also listen. As you pray, you will sometimes get a sense in your heart of something you should pray that you hadn't even thought about earlier.

Friend, I have something really important you need to know and remember.
God loves you and He loves your children, even more than you do. 

Praying for your family is one of the most important things you can do.  Like the MaMa Bunny sitting on her nest of babies while the evil birds tried to intimidate her so they could devour the little ones, we need to be diligent in covering our own children in prayer.

Never Forget the Truth...
"Tremendous power is released through the passionate heartfelt prayer of a godly believer!" 
James 5:16b TPT

Tuesday, December 3, 2019

Focused



Do you ever find yourself totally focused one moment, then off doing some random task the next moment? 
This happens to me more than I care to admit. 
So, this fall, I made "staying focused" my new goal.

But, alas, I have skipped right off of this new path a few times while I'm learning.
Unfortunately, I learn best from my mistakes.

Just a few weeks after starting my new resolution, while I was attentively listening to a conference call in the Bluetooth in my ear, I somehow found myself in my kitchen, still listening but looking for something to make my coffee taste a little more exciting. 

Every Wednesday morning I have a call with people who run different local ministries throughout my city and state. 
For one hour each week, current and retired doctors, business professionals, educators and more, gather by phone to give an update on their particular organization and to pray.
And boy! Can these people pray! 

On this call, I particularly love listening to Dr. David, a retired doctor who is originally from India. He is so full of love for God and love for people. Plus, there is something about his accent that makes him sound even wiser.

The morning I was distracted by my coffee, we were about 45 minutes into our call  when I got up from the couch to look for a solution to the boring coffee dilemma. I unknowingly left my phone behind because my Bluetooth was in my ear.  I tend to mute and un-mute the speaker several times throughout the call depending on what is going on around me and if I want to speak. I didn't really pay attention to the mute button when I got up and headed toward the kitchen.
When I opened the refrigerator, I saw a few flavored creamers before I noticed some thing in the back of a door shelf, near the ketchup.  It was a plastic bottle of Hershey's syrup. Yum! I didn't even know we had that. I could turn my coffee into a mocha.




I was so delighted with the thought of my delicious drink, I'm not even sure if I was listening to the call going on in my ear.

Then it happened!!!!

I flipped open the lid, turned over the bottle to squeeze the chocolate into my drink and
completely froze....
                            panicked....
            ran scenarios quickly through my mind  of how to handle my situation.
THE SYRUP BOTTLE WAS ALMOST EMPTY. So, when I squeezed it, it made a horrible sound.  A little syrup came out, but there was the loud noise of a lot of air being pushed through the little hole in the lid.
Noooooo!



    Was my phone on mute?
          Would anyone know that noise came from my phone?
              Should I blame the dog? Try to explain?
                      Sneak off the call, never to be heard from again?
I froze, literally holding the bottle in place, not knowing what to do.
Did the person who was praying pause longer than usual?
Did everyone just hear that noise?!!!
I touched every pocket on my clothing looking for my phone.
I tiptoed into the other room to get it. (I don't know why I tiptoed, but I did).
"Oh Please, Lord. Let my phone be on mute!"...... "Please!!!!"

This was my silent prayer that day.
Compared to the "big things" we pray about on this call, my silent plea to God may not seem important.  But at that moment, it was important to me.

As I was creeping back to the couch, I remembered my new goal and wished I had caught myself getting distracted just a few minutes earlier. 

Friend - You and I were created for a purpose.  We may get to do a lot of different things a long our journeys. But, when we are given a task, a call, or a mission, it is best to always keep that in our line of sight when we are deciding what to do.  It is just as easy to get distracted by good things (like chocolate syrup), as it is by negative things.

My prayer for us today is that
- our hearts and minds are attuned to the voice of God
AND
- we will stay focused on the good things He has called us to do.

Hopefully, we can both learn from the lesson of the chocolate syrup.
Never Forget the Truth ...
God created you for a purpose to do good things which he prepared for you in advance.


So what happened?????

Thankfully, my phone was on mute.

So, why are my friends disappointed by that?

Friday, November 8, 2019

Consider It Pure Joy .... Really?!



"Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds,"


Ummmm - What? Who thought that was a good saying?!
Maybe "pure joy" meant something different long ago when it was written.


Oh, wait. The writer was Jesus' younger brother, James.
I think it is safe to assume he may know a few things


When I hear the words to consider trials pure joy or to rejoice when things are hard, my first thought is - you don't know what I have been through. The last three years, I have hung onto a verse in Ecclesiastes 3. It says there is a time to cry and a time to laugh, a time to grieve and a time to dance.


It is hard to understand "consider it pure joy" when you are suffering. 


James goes on to explain that when our faith is tested, it produces endurance.  As we build endurance or perseverance, we become mature and complete, not lacking in anything.  


So, James, let me get this straight.  
If ......
My job is eliminated,
      My child makes a terrible decision,
           My medical test comes back positive,
                My bills are larger than my bank account,
Then I'm on my way to being "mature and complete"? 


Hmmm (I'm really tempted to say, "No thanks. I'm good.")


"We can rejoice when we run into problems and trials....." 


Rejoice? Seriously? 
Tolerate? Yes.   But, rejoice? 


I looked up the original Greek words in these two quotes to make sure the meaning of the statements are exactly how they sound. (From James 1:2 NIV & Romans 5:3 NIV)
"Pure Joy" = chara  - defined as cheerfulness; i.e., calm delight:- gladness; exceedingly joyful;
"Rejoice" = kauchaomai - defined as boast, glory, joy, rejoice


It looks like the definitions are exactly what I thought.


This leaves me with a conundrum.  I am not a fan of trials and tribulations.  As a matter of fact, I like to avoid them 


To be honest, boasting about a trial is not usually the first thing that comes to mind. 
Think about it. I talk to my friend and say, "Hey Friend - Wait until you hear my exciting news. My husband has been out of work for almost a year. Our insurance is no longer active. And we don't know how we are going to pay our mortgage."  
 Now it can be wonderful to see how God works things out for us when there seems to be absolutely no way.  
But still - I am not yet in the place where I boast when there is a problem. 


"The testing of your faith gives you perseverance. As this endurance develops in you, you become mature and complete, not lacking anything."  
In Romans, the Apostle Paul explains a little more about becoming "mature and complete, not lacking anything".  
He shows us - 
Trials - lead to endurance 
         Endurance makes me think of training for a marathon.
Endurance - leads to strength of character 
          Like training for a marathon, each of your body's 'systems' get stronger. 
Character - leads to confident hope. 
This confident hope is an understanding of God's immense love for us.  He gives us His Spirit, so we can truly 'get it'. 


*Understanding God's love for us IS what brings us to maturity and completion. 


Personally, I have struggled to 'get it' because I get distracted by the struggles.
I have gone through breast cancer treatment this year.  Plus, three people I love have recently moved on to heaven.  My trial right now is learning how to "do life" without my sister here.
I know God is close to the broken hearted. He comforts those who mourn.  He is with us in every trial. So, how do I reconcile my heart ache and pure joy?


I reconcile it because I KNOW God can be trusted ALWAYS.  Every trial and every pain I have endured, My Loving God has been right there helping in ways I never could have imagined.  The first thing I heard in my heart when I cried out to God about my sister’s sudden death, was "Trust Me". A peace came over me immediately. Though my heart was shattered and I did not understand, I knew, from every past experience I have had with Him, that He was right there. I would soon see His love for me demonstrated as I walked through this terrible time.


It reminds me of the story in Acts 16.  Paul and Silas were beaten, stripped, thrown into the inner cell of a prison and chained to the wall.  
What did they do in the midst of such terrible suffering?  Verse 25 says around midnight they began to pray and sing praises to God.  
What?! 
I’ll say it again. In the midst of their suffering, they KNEW God could be trusted. 
The next verse tells of an absolute miracle. “Suddenly there was such a violent earthquake that the foundation of the prison was shaken. At once all of the prison doors flew open, and everybody’s chains came loose” 
They were right!  God could be trusted.  He not only saved Paul and Silas from prison, but the chains of everyone near them came loose, also. 


God's ways are impossible for us to understand while we are walking here on earth.  But each time we choose to trust Him in the challenges of life, we begin to understand His love for us more and more.


It appears to me, Paul and Silas did not get chained up in prison and immediately start praising God.  I’m not sure what time they got there, but “around midnight” they began to do the best thing they could. They prayed and sang songs to God. That is what changed everything for them. 
 I believe it is “around midnight” for us. It is time to start praising God right in the middle of our struggle. 


Just like the runner sometimes experiences the trial of muscle pains or burning in the lungs, we experience our own version of pain when facing a trial.
The runner pushes through, developing mental stamina as well,  knowing it is building the endurance he or she will need to reach the 26.2 mile goal. 





That's it! 
When facing a trial, we are actually on our way to being "complete". We are in the process of learning to understand the depth of God's perfect love for us. 


YOU, My Friend, are loved by God more than you can even comprehend at this time. The things you view as your stressors, are actually stepping stones that lead you right to the place you want to be.


I encourage you to look for the ways God is showing you His personal love for you as you are facing trials of many kinds. You are his precious child.

It turns out, James was not being unreasonable by telling us to "consider it pure joy" when we are facing hard things.  He is telling us to choose how we look at it, to understand the end goal. We can choose to praise God and be thankful even when it's hard. 
The word "consider",  hegeomai in the original Greek text, does not just mean "to deem; consider; account". It also means "to lead; i.e. to command (with official authority)". 
My conclusion is we can BE THE BOSS OF OUR JOY.  


Ephesians 3:18-19 IS the goal.


"May you have the power to understand, as all God's people should, how wide, how long, how high and how deep the love of God is.  
May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete, with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God."


Never Forget the Truth ....... 
You are immensely loved by God.